Life, they always say that it is the greatest blessing, the greatest gift, whether from god, from parents, or whatever. Even so, why is life so difficult sometimes? Why is there no one to teach us how to live life like a blessing? Why must there be countless obstacles to ruin our happiness? Those people who say life is good, I wonder, do they say it too at dull moments? Do they too think life is good when they've come to face agonizing moments of sadness? What will they think then? I wish to know.
Happiness, we all are told it doesn't last, and we all experienced it ourselves too. But there's always someone else out there always seem to be happier than us, always seem to have more than us. Yet, every man has his own meat, every man has his own poison. People are suffering, it all seem so inevitable. Pain always has to come after every bit of happiness, life just won't let us go that easily huh. It just have to put you down crying on the ground each time you think you've reached the pinnacle of happiness.
Each time that you think that you're content with life, something just have to come tumbling down, something just have to appear right in front of you and give you a hard blow in your face. Some say this is to make us grow, this is for us to learn to be stronger. But isn't it a bit too tiring at times? Isn't it a bit too much at times? Where's that room for us to catch our breathe? Where's that space we need just to enjoy a little more longer?
And despite all that, why do humans still continue living like they do? Why do most humans still fear death?
But don't you feel so, only when happiness comes only it is a blessing, the rest of the times when your face is in the mud, you curse your own fate asking why do you have to go through this kind of life. I do. Perhaps I don't appreciate happiness as much. Is this the same for everyone? Is it that when you're happy you only think about the moment of joy you're currently in? Then when you're sad, every possible sorrowful moments you've faced before come back and taunt at you?
Wishing for happiness to last might be too greedy, so all I ask for, is just to have the sad moments, less painful..
Saturday, October 18, 2008
The Following Morning
Apparently, I've already gotten two hate comments 'falming' me, pretty nice for a start huh? XD Anyways, congrats to the FIRST hater to comment on my blog, FANG!!! *wooo!!!*
Well, lets get started. So I'm not really gonna write every damn thing that happened in my life, I doubt I'll write much anyway. Basically, I'm just here to bitch about things, you know, rant and complain about some of the screwed up things in life.
And please DO keep this in mind, when I speak here, I act like a know-it-all and an asshole. Thus, tendency to get offended is HIGH. Once again I shall repeat, I WILL act like a know-it-all ass and get all high and mighty and mean and stuff like that. If you can't deal with it, I sincerely hope you get so offended you EXPLODE by spontaneous human combustion.
Alright, the first thing I wanna talk about is a post I saw in someone's blog (I refuse to use the term 'friend' for this someone, please don't ask why). So yeah, he/she says in the blog that,
Guys, in GENERAL, are like that : They make you (girl) think that you're his everything, then believe you two are made for each other, will be together forever and all that shit-ass romantic notion.
But when things are over between you two, he chooses to erase everything to "protect himself from hurting more". And that he can pretend that nothing happened at all, all the GOOD memories, all the times spent together.
And he/she goes on stating how ex-girlfriends are always unremarkable.
Then in the last part of his/her post, 'it' (okay the he/she thing really takes time so I'm just gonna settle with a simple 'it') writes like this :
"all juz gone, or replaced by another prettier face... saddening, but true... love.... is starting to freak me out...."
Alright then, my turn to voice out. So is it really guys' problem that we forget and throw away everything? That makes us sound really cruel and hypocritic huh? Really, there are a lot of things to consider before settling this behaviour to guys in GENERAL.
And I believe, some guys have special reasons for exhibiting this behaviour.
Firstly, we don't know what the ex really ever did, don't we? Pretty often people only get to see what's on the surface, but things within couples usually remain hidden to only themselves. And I'm going to apply this to my first point. See, the ex could've been a real bitch or been really mean and inhumane to the guy and no one knows. She may be nice to him on the surface but is torturing him inside.
Sure, there's happy moments and things to reminisce, but when the ex's been such a pain in the ass and never learns to change, you're gonna really find the happy moments rather sickening. So then, why choose to remember sickening moments when we can just throw them away? Really, it's not that we're heartless, we're just thinking for our own good.
But then, you'll ask, "If the ex was so fucking mean, then why continue being with her and all the forever-ness crap?" Well, I'll give you a simple A and B scenario, so here goes, PAY ATTENTION :
A : *slaps B*
B : "Ouch! That hurt, why did you do that??"
A : "Aww, I'm really sorry. I promise I'll not do that again. Does it still hurt? You poor thing, please forgive me."
B : "Ah, I'm alright now. It's okay, I forgive you." =)
A : *slaps B again*
B : "Oww!! I thought you said you won't do that again?!"
A : "Oh, I'm sorry."
B : "Alright then, it's okay don't worry about it." =)
=And the cycle repeats again and again and again until=
A : *slaps B*
B : "Why are you doing this to me?!"
A : "It's just a slap, bear with it, don't be so childish."
B : "I'm sorry, I'm being too childish, please forgive me, it's my fault for whining so much."
A : "Good" *continues slapping B*
B : =) *Maybe if I be good enough, A will stop slapping me, and treat me nicer, I better not complain*
I guess looking at this scenario you could already get an idea of the answer for "If the ex was so fucking mean, then why continue being with her and all the forever-ness crap?". It's this dumb delusion of "Maybe if I be good enough, A will stop slapping me, and treat me nicer, I better not complain" that causes the stupidity of wanting to continue. And of course, watching too much love drama and stories also contributes to the forever-ness bullshit, especially those kinds of love dramas where the girlfriend is mean and fierce. With that, more idiots will be deluded into thinking that it is true love. It's sad really, to be suffering like that.
Suppose you're B, and you're really that STUPID and you go to the heights of idiocy of believing that A will really change for you, how will you feel? What will you want to do when you realise you're just in a dumb illusion, that you're just having a misconception, that you're just being bullied? And yeah I know, A's a sadistic freak huh? There are such persons on Earth, I assure you.
I'd like to point out something else that 'it' wrote : "all juz gone, or replaced by another prettier face... saddening, but true... "
Replaced another prettier face huh? Nah, don't think so. Who would want to believe in pretty faces after all that torment? Of course it is always a NICER heart that triumphs, common sense, even better when combined with a prettier face, and all the better to forget everything about the ex.
It's not saddening at all really, maybe sad for the ex, but whole in whole, it's quite relieving. And for the ex to think that the guy should remember the happy moments and all, I think it's a wee bit vain and presumptuous of her. Man, I love the word 'presumptuous', it just sounds so nice huh?
Anyway, all that I'm rambling about here is just one small case amongst many other possible cases. So I'm not saying no guys are like that, I'm just trying point out that, once again, some guys have special reasons for exhibiting this behaviour. So, a little message to all those ex's out there, look at yourself and really think deep about the things you've done, before you go on complaining about how your ex have forgotten you and the memories which you vainly think are so valuable.
Mind you, ex-girlfriends are NOT always unremarkable, please don't take the wrong idea. Lets take myself for an example, I have 3 ex's, but I only despise one. See?
Guess that's all for now. Please do bash on me if you think I'm so wrong and ignorant =)
I had oatmeal for breakfast by the way if you're wanting to catch my everyday life happenings.
Well, lets get started. So I'm not really gonna write every damn thing that happened in my life, I doubt I'll write much anyway. Basically, I'm just here to bitch about things, you know, rant and complain about some of the screwed up things in life.
And please DO keep this in mind, when I speak here, I act like a know-it-all and an asshole. Thus, tendency to get offended is HIGH. Once again I shall repeat, I WILL act like a know-it-all ass and get all high and mighty and mean and stuff like that. If you can't deal with it, I sincerely hope you get so offended you EXPLODE by spontaneous human combustion.
Alright, the first thing I wanna talk about is a post I saw in someone's blog (I refuse to use the term 'friend' for this someone, please don't ask why). So yeah, he/she says in the blog that,
Guys, in GENERAL, are like that : They make you (girl) think that you're his everything, then believe you two are made for each other, will be together forever and all that shit-ass romantic notion.
But when things are over between you two, he chooses to erase everything to "protect himself from hurting more". And that he can pretend that nothing happened at all, all the GOOD memories, all the times spent together.
And he/she goes on stating how ex-girlfriends are always unremarkable.
Then in the last part of his/her post, 'it' (okay the he/she thing really takes time so I'm just gonna settle with a simple 'it') writes like this :
"all juz gone, or replaced by another prettier face... saddening, but true... love.... is starting to freak me out...."
Alright then, my turn to voice out. So is it really guys' problem that we forget and throw away everything? That makes us sound really cruel and hypocritic huh? Really, there are a lot of things to consider before settling this behaviour to guys in GENERAL.
And I believe, some guys have special reasons for exhibiting this behaviour.
Firstly, we don't know what the ex really ever did, don't we? Pretty often people only get to see what's on the surface, but things within couples usually remain hidden to only themselves. And I'm going to apply this to my first point. See, the ex could've been a real bitch or been really mean and inhumane to the guy and no one knows. She may be nice to him on the surface but is torturing him inside.
Sure, there's happy moments and things to reminisce, but when the ex's been such a pain in the ass and never learns to change, you're gonna really find the happy moments rather sickening. So then, why choose to remember sickening moments when we can just throw them away? Really, it's not that we're heartless, we're just thinking for our own good.
But then, you'll ask, "If the ex was so fucking mean, then why continue being with her and all the forever-ness crap?" Well, I'll give you a simple A and B scenario, so here goes, PAY ATTENTION :
A : *slaps B*
B : "Ouch! That hurt, why did you do that??"
A : "Aww, I'm really sorry. I promise I'll not do that again. Does it still hurt? You poor thing, please forgive me."
B : "Ah, I'm alright now. It's okay, I forgive you." =)
A : *slaps B again*
B : "Oww!! I thought you said you won't do that again?!"
A : "Oh, I'm sorry."
B : "Alright then, it's okay don't worry about it." =)
=And the cycle repeats again and again and again until=
A : *slaps B*
B : "Why are you doing this to me?!"
A : "It's just a slap, bear with it, don't be so childish."
B : "I'm sorry, I'm being too childish, please forgive me, it's my fault for whining so much."
A : "Good" *continues slapping B*
B : =) *Maybe if I be good enough, A will stop slapping me, and treat me nicer, I better not complain*
I guess looking at this scenario you could already get an idea of the answer for "If the ex was so fucking mean, then why continue being with her and all the forever-ness crap?". It's this dumb delusion of "Maybe if I be good enough, A will stop slapping me, and treat me nicer, I better not complain" that causes the stupidity of wanting to continue. And of course, watching too much love drama and stories also contributes to the forever-ness bullshit, especially those kinds of love dramas where the girlfriend is mean and fierce. With that, more idiots will be deluded into thinking that it is true love. It's sad really, to be suffering like that.
Suppose you're B, and you're really that STUPID and you go to the heights of idiocy of believing that A will really change for you, how will you feel? What will you want to do when you realise you're just in a dumb illusion, that you're just having a misconception, that you're just being bullied? And yeah I know, A's a sadistic freak huh? There are such persons on Earth, I assure you.
I'd like to point out something else that 'it' wrote : "all juz gone, or replaced by another prettier face... saddening, but true... "
Replaced another prettier face huh? Nah, don't think so. Who would want to believe in pretty faces after all that torment? Of course it is always a NICER heart that triumphs, common sense, even better when combined with a prettier face, and all the better to forget everything about the ex.
It's not saddening at all really, maybe sad for the ex, but whole in whole, it's quite relieving. And for the ex to think that the guy should remember the happy moments and all, I think it's a wee bit vain and presumptuous of her. Man, I love the word 'presumptuous', it just sounds so nice huh?
Anyway, all that I'm rambling about here is just one small case amongst many other possible cases. So I'm not saying no guys are like that, I'm just trying point out that, once again, some guys have special reasons for exhibiting this behaviour. So, a little message to all those ex's out there, look at yourself and really think deep about the things you've done, before you go on complaining about how your ex have forgotten you and the memories which you vainly think are so valuable.
Mind you, ex-girlfriends are NOT always unremarkable, please don't take the wrong idea. Lets take myself for an example, I have 3 ex's, but I only despise one. See?
Guess that's all for now. Please do bash on me if you think I'm so wrong and ignorant =)
I had oatmeal for breakfast by the way if you're wanting to catch my everyday life happenings.
Friday, October 17, 2008
Intro!
YAY!!! WOO!! *Bursts of confetti!!* Cheers! Guess what people?! I have....created a WEB LOG!!!! Hell yeah!!! AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Err, so yeah, so I've just created a web log. And like any other, I'd ABSOLUTELY love to post up boring everyday happenings, pictures & photos. So please be entertained!!!! Wuuu!!!
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But seriously, I'm gonna write shits in this WEB LOG (Notice I refuse to use the word 'Blog'). Haters are most welcomed ^^ Please flame me!!
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